A Newlywed Truth

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Growth.







Remember how our power went out last weekend and I mentioned that Mike' and I passed the time reading and snoozing... in silence.

It got me thinking about something from our dating years that drove me crazy. I'd say it was about 3 years into our relationship when we started going on dates or hanging out together and we really wouldn't have a whole lot to talk about. I know it sounds simple enough but for some reason it really got under my skin. I would exclaim how silence during a date must mean there was something wrong with us and if we talking was an issue for us now what would things be like later in life?!? (*Side Note- Mike probably remembers this a little differently, and by a little differently I mean if he were here right now he'd be shaking his head saying I was so much more dramatic than that... and he's right).

If only I knew then what I know now. It's 6 years later and we spent the better part of a Sunday in absence of conversation and we're doing just fine. I think it's safe to say we've shown some excellent growth over the years (mostly me, Mike never thought it was a big deal... perhaps I should've learned sooner to always listen to him in times like that because he's almost always right, almost).

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  1. Ojash RavalMay 11, 2012 at 9:58 PM

    This has turned into the most useless blog ever. How as the end of April, Beginning of May? Anything new? Still alive? Etc, etc. What the hell...after I move back, I will not accept this degree of flakiness.

    -Ojash

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